“She will do anything for me. My lady knows my thoughts and always ahead of my plans. I love ❤ her with my soul. She stays hungry just for me to eat and awake so I can sleep. I thought this is what love is all about until the day she looked into my eyes and said ‘I am done with you.’
The words she uttered on that day hurt me more than being jabbed with a knife because it was sharp and it went through my heart. Wait a minute! What happened to my woman?”
Realwithkem’s thoughts; There is a difference between personality and love in a relationship; In most cases, it is easy to take one for the other. We all have our different personalities and we will deposit it into our relationships. Sometimes we get lucky to meet a lover with some great personalities like being caring, submissive. Unfortunately, we might consider all these personalities to be love when they are not. Your partner can have all these good personalities without loving you. Don’t get me wrong, he/she is not deceiving you because is just who she is. It is left to you to identify whether she loves you or just acting herself. How do you identify? Easy! Pay attention if she exhibits the same personalities towards everyone, then you can identify she is just acting herself. Love is when you go the extra mile to show your affection towards your lover; when you do something you won’t ordinary do to everyone. Also when you make some sacrifices in your relationship. So, lovers should pay attention to their relationships by not accepting personalities for love. We all deserve to be truly loved. Realwithkem!